The world of BDSM is wide-ranging and intricate. When hiring an escort from a list crawler, be specific about the services you want. If you’re new to BDSM and seeking an escort, prepare for an unforgettable experience.
Here’s a brief overview of activities you can explore in BDSM. Make sure to communicate beforehand and make a ‘yes and no’ list of all the things you can and cannot do during the session.
Hair pulling:
As a thumb rule, experts always recommend that you start small during BDSM. Hair pulling is a good start to kink play, and you can always adjust the pressure as per the escort’s or partner’s liking. While there is some level of pain involved, yanking the escort’s hair is not the right way to do it.
Instead of pulling her by the end or middle of her hair shaft, place your palm on her scalp and grab a good amount of hair. This makes hair-pulling more pleasurable for women.
Light spanking:
Spanking can be enjoyable for both, but it’s important to do it right. If you’re using your hands to spank, keep your fingers together instead of apart when striking the escort. Spank the escort’s ass in an upward motion so that it touches her flesh and not the bone.
To make the session more fun, you can even use toys such as paddles, whips, or ticklers. If you are into bondage and are a Dom, you can also try handcuffs, blindfolds, and ankle restraints on her.
Discuss the language you can use
A lot of women like to be called ‘slut’ and ‘whore’ during BDSM. If there are specific words you want to hear during the session, tell the escort beforehand. Also, agree on a safe word that either of you can use if things get uncomfortable.
Tie her up:
If you enjoy bondage and want to see a woman surrender in bed, starting by tying her up with scarves or ropes can be a good beginning. Once she’s restrained, exploring her reactions to your touch can be quite exciting. Play around by stroking, scratching, and squeezing her softly and explore what her body does to different kinds of touch.
If you feel she is enjoying it, use your hands and fingers to make her orgasm. If you are into edging, you can stop right before she is about to climax. While some women like to keep going after one orgasm, others get too sensitive. Based on the escort’s preference you can either give her multiple orgasms or just move on to sex after a while.
Bites and nibbles:
Biting and nibbling is also a great entry-level start to BDSM, as it allows you to experiment with different levels of pain. If you are into leaving marks and hickeys, discuss it with your Ladys.one escort.
Using blindfolds:
When you use blindfolds, it heightens the other senses, which helps in enhancing the pleasure. If the escort is blindfolded, softly pinch certain sensitive areas in her body. You can even use feathers and ice cubes all over her body and watch her quiver.
You can slowly move to other parts, like her breasts and nipples, and as she starts moving her hips and squeezes her thighs together, you can move to sex.
Sub-Dom roleplaying:
BDSM also involves one partner having the reigns and the other one following the lead. If you are a Dom, you can book an escort on list crawler who is a sub. While role-playing, the Dom is the master, and the submissive partner has to play by the Dom’s rules. Some classic examples of Sub-Dom dynamics are punishment play and caretaking scenes.
Takeaway:
Are you new at this and considering dabbling in a play session with an escort? For those seeking to master BDSM techniques, some suggest that hiring an escort is an effective way to learn.
If you’re eager to delve deeper into BDSM, consider taking the step without further delay.
Reach out to an escort to discuss your fantasies and book a play session right away! If you have specific requests, let the escort know in advance so that they can come prepared.
